Today I Choose That The Rest Of My Life Be The Best Of My Life

Today I choose to be happy, I choose to prioritize myself, take care of myself and love myself a little more, and that the stars give light to that path of my life that I have yet to travel, so that everything that comes is good. I choose to be brave and know how to give happiness to my people.

It is never too late for good purposes, it is never too late to realize that perhaps, we deserve more and that we ourselves are the first to be convinced to take the helm of our life, and give, why not , a little more air to our sails to achieve happiness.

Sometimes, and almost without realizing it, people put off our lives. We limit ourselves “to exist”, but not to live. And we are not talking about not being able to do it due to financial problems, there are those who lead an authentic, full and happy life having the minimum.

We are talking about that life in which one is in balance with oneself and lives from the heart, truly doing what he loves and surrounding himself with people from whom he receives authentic reciprocity.

There are times when we are stranded in eternal waiting rooms, waiting to reach our ticket to that real and authentic life because we are tied to things, situations or even people that completely veto our personal growth.

When life is not life and it is only existence

Throughout our life cycle we go through different stages where happiness is not always guaranteed. They are moments in which life is not life, it is just a passing of the days where we are diluted, where there is no intensity, where there is no illusion.

Those who limit themselves to being carried away by routine and by the choices that others make for them, is losing their way day by day. There will surely come a time when you will stop knowing yourself. because his identity will have been frayed in a cold mantle where his self-esteem will no longer be sheltered. Where there will be nothing left.

• Sometimes it is certain situations that end up conditioning us in such a way that we no longer question things.  “I know that my work does not make me happy, that my rights are violated, but at least I have an economic support. Leaving it is a risk, and despite the fact that I am losing my health I can not do anything … “

• Another reason why we remain stranded and limited in our personal growth is because of those affective couples who limit our aspirations, who veto our spaces, our goals, to such a degree that sometimes we choose to let ourselves go …

In reality, there are many reasons why our life, that authentic life that we dream for ourselves, is postponed. We may even be the ones who close the doors out of indecision, out of fear of leaving a certain comfort zone.

The enemies of our vital growth and our happiness are not always on the outside. Sometimes our own thoughts and attributions can be the most dangerous. 

Today I choose to start the best of my life

The simple decision is already a big step. Deciding that we want and we are going to be happy implies an act of courage and surround ourselves with something with great force, something called illusion and in turn, a life project.

From today on you will stop seeing life as “one who turns the pages of a book.” Now, you are going to write the book of your life and you are going to be the real protagonist, for this, it is necessary to take the following steps.

• Today begins the rest of your life, and it will be the best of your existence, and therefore, you must understand that your happiness really depends on one thing: yourself, and your attitude.

• Every act of determination requires acts of courage. And therefore, since now you rise as the architect of your destiny, it is time to assess what it is that prevents you from being yourself in your life. Value what offers you unhappiness, sadness and what violates your self-esteem.

• Keep in mind that to be happy, you may have to make the odd resignation.

• You are already aware of what hurts you. Now put your gaze on what is important to you and what you will never give up : your family, your friends, your hobbies, your dreams …

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