Loving Loneliness Makes You A Better Partner
In many moments we love to highlight the importance of loneliness , not yet seen by our society with its authentic meaning full of love for life. Hence, we tend to think that those who prefer to have her as a best friend are cold people.
And it turns out that it is the opposite. We characterize ourselves as human beings for being vulnerable when it comes to being carried away by prejudices, thus not being able to see the true essence full of beauty of those around us.
We get too carried away by labels, those who will say, without taking into account the truth or at least reality. A reality that each of us have the power to collect and perceive as we please.
In this case, loneliness is filled with headlines that make us avoid it at all costs, seeking to get away from those who preach with their practice. When we don’t truly value the implicit message of it.
Appreciating being alone and in our own company is a sign of maturity, emotional intelligence, and a level of love for ourselves. The life mission that we all aspire to reach as human beings.
To be alone is to be with you
Let’s face it, it takes great value to be willing to face yourself, this being the origin of all our fears. We are the creators and recipients of our fears. And depending on how we manage these we can have more or less power, be better or not as people of light.
When the one who is able to live with loneliness and listen to his heart, then he will be a person loaded with a gift: that of his own emotional freedom . Being emotionally free in our century is a treasure, and building an environment and relationship with these characteristics is a precious asset.
People with this gift are characterized by respecting, first of all, themselves and in congruence with those they love. They value silence and know what to say and when to stay out of it.
One of the human stages that characterizes us is the desire at some point in our life to enjoy a relationship as a couple lived fully. If we take into account what has been said so far, you will surely agree that the best friends of loneliness can become the perfect companion.
Why does loving loneliness make us a better couple?
Solitude allows that space so precious by many, and much needed and demanded by others. Allowing ourselves moments away from our loved one, but only in time and space, never in the heart, generates mutual respect. All this implies the perfect ingredients to build a relationship full of unconditional love.
Those of us who love and need to spend time with ourselves understand that this peculiarity and trait encourages us to get to know each other better and, consequently, create the tools and freedom to get to know our partner.
Loneliness allows us to connect with our essence
Probably, this way we will also be able to accompany our life partner to the same destination: the best version of ourselves. Whether out of love, motivation, synergy … Loneliness allows us to understand that there are priorities and that we are not the center of the universe for any mortal.
Being alone allows us to understand and accept life to feel better
Loneliness allows us to understand that not everything is permanent, both the positive and the negative … And therefore, that we are in constant movement and change. As the Buddhist doctrine says, “we are one with the universe . ” Silence becomes our greatest precursor to understanding this pretext.
A person who loves spending time with himself gives away space wherever he goes
You thus become a better person and allow the love you feel inside, both for yourself and for your partner, to continue to grow. Freedom flourishes, as does the desire to meet both again, merging into one heart. And the greatest thing, it allows itself to let go, the true basis of the pure and divine love of our humanity.
At this point I will not say goodbye without first asking you, do you think now that loving solitude makes you a better partner? As the great writer Arthur Schopenhauer said “loneliness is the lot of all excellent spirits.”
