You Have To Let Go Of Those Who Have Never Been
It is not necessary to leave to not be. There are many ways to be late and even not show up in someone’s life. The absence of someone who loves you in life is something you choose. Then we must consider that of stopping looking for excuses to stay and say goodbye or let go. But a GOODBYE of those who dress with accents and capital letters, and thus close all the gaps through which one could re-enter. To the full.
When you are able to detach yourself from something that has imprisoned you for a long time, you can clear your mind and get rid of the absences that you did not understand and kept your life hanging by a thread.
Growing up is learning to say goodbye
Being able to say goodbye or letting go of someone who has never been means not backing down, separating what enriches us from what wears us out, taking care of our own worth and stopping dragging ourselves begging for crumbs of a love that only exists in our mind.
When there is no reciprocity or the balance leans towards pain, the relationship loses all meaning and, therefore, the only thing it achieves is that we agonize waiting for the seal to finalize the ending that was weaving its threads.
The moment we let go we will realize that taking the step and letting go means freeing ourselves, growing and creating a new life. This new atmosphere will allow us to sow new emotions in a land that until then was not fertile.
Thinking that someone will always be there is a big mistake
There are times when people disappear from our life at times thinking that they can come back when they please, because they are sure that we will always be here. But that is not the case, we all deserve respect and absences have a high price.
Blind love is not a sufficient guarantee for a relationship to prosper. That is why sometimes ellipsis stories have to be removed two and left in full stop. Our emotional well-being depends on it.
It is difficult to face a decisive goodbye having the certainty that we will have to fight to heal the wound of abandonment. We fear in the process for our self-esteem, our self-confidence, and our well-being.
But growth implies a certain disorientation that can distress us. We have to be aware that part of the way we are going to have to go hand in hand with uncertainty.
This is not comfortable, but it is worth considering that the exchange will result in the reconstruction of oneself and the harmony with our interior. It’s about being honest and demanding in our emotional company. It is not always easy, but what is necessary is not always.
